Okay... So, I went to see Mr Capoeira on Thursday evening...
We met up at a cute little sushi place, in the city... Either I'd been talking to too many unattractive men, or he was just that handsome... But, Mr Capoeira was even better looking than his photos online... For a moment I just stared... He had long, twisted dread locs... He was tall, and his muscles could be seen under his coat... He had that little bit of bow-leggedness, that I love so much... Everything about him was sexy... From his Kango to his crip black top, to his fitted pants ((and what an ass he had)). I was so happy to have found a Pot that was this fine... I thought, "hey, this should make everything easier"...
I'd never had sushi, and was reluctant to try anything... So, I drank... I'm not a big drinker, but I can hold liquor... I tried Sake... it wasn't my cup of tea, but he loved it... Mr Capoeira ate 6 plates of raw fish, and I had 2 glasses of wine, a martini, and a cosmo...
The conversation was light, and airy... I don't know if it was because he was that funny, or that amazingly fine, but I had a grin on my lips the entire time... As he was placing some food in his mouth, for a moment, I caught my eyes following his chopstick, and caught a glimmer of something shiny in his mouth... When I asked what it was, he stuck his tongue out at me... Mr Capoeira had a two tongue rings in his mouth... I couldn't believe it... That struck up an entire different conversation... Turns out he also pierced his nipples and his penis... It took me by surprise... Here I am... 'Little miss conservative', sitting across from 'Mr Freak'... But it wasn't gross... It was so sexy... I was intrigued...
After the sushi was long gone, and his drinks seemed to take hold, he loosened up... The physical attraction was there... the chemistry was... I kept wanting to kiss him... He asked me what I wanted, and then I had to focus... This is usually where I had the most problems... Expressing what it was I wanted from men... With a deep breath, I told him... I wanted an allowance for a set number of dates, etc... But he was so fine... I added, since I was so attracted to him, and since we got along so well, we could meet up more if time permitted...
He didn't like the idea of an allowance right away... And insisted something that sounded like a trial period... before considering an allowance... I was secretly upset... A trial period...??? Hmph... He told me what he expected... STD Testing, some sort of contraceptive ((any other man, and this would have been so gross))... He wanted lacy lingerie, and heels... And he told me how much he loved the way my hair fell on my shoulders... ((that weave was a GOOD idea))... But if after said "evaluation" he decided not to agree to the arrangement, then what..??? I would have wasted time, shoes, money and energy on nothing...
Still we talked about it... He talked a lot... It was good, though... I sat back and watched him tell me about himself without literally doing so... He was so easy to read... Mr Capoeira was cocky, and so sure about himself... He claimed he knew the woman's body in and out... He told me about his past arrangement... He had so many companies, my website, my hourly rate... blah blah blah... It was amusing...
After dinner, he took me to Sephora... And let be walk up and down the aisles... He said his sister worked in make-up, and he had an appreciation of it all... It wasn't a giftcard, but I checked that late gift off of my Christmas wish-list... Mr Capoeira bought me +$300 in makeup and fragrances... If this was what the trial period was going to consist of, then, I'd have no problem...
Still, he was so sexy... His walk was slow, and deliberate... His back was hard under his trench... and his ass... ladies... I wanted him so badly...
Afterwards, he offered to put me in a cab, but I didn't accept... I thanked him for everything with a nice, long hug... He was strong, and I could tell he didn't want me to leave... We parted ways, with that, and I took the train home...
Once I exited the subway, I had a text waiting for me...
"Had a great time. You have the prettiest smile and the most gorgeous legs. Can't wait till tomorrow.
-A"
I went to bed really easy that night...
-CCSB
Physical attraction is a wonderful think and all too often lacking in the sugar arrangements I read of. I hope you enjoy Mr Capoiera. Make sure to have fun and if it's to be strictly sugar, it might pay to keep any feelings past the physical ones in check.
ReplyDeleteHappy '12 and happy sugaring!
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You're so right Eden...
ReplyDeleteOMG he sounds soo sexy! I wish my SDs/Pots were that hot. I get a bit intimidated with the guys I talk to on SD sites that are under 40 and actually sexy. It makes me wonder "Why are they on this site? This MUST be a scam". Congrats girl! This one could be a keeper!
ReplyDeleteAs for the "trial period", I get this alot with Pots. I think its because they dont want to fork up half of 10 grand and then realize that the sex wasnt good or something. I usually deal with this by telling them that I would love to go out a few more times and get to know them better before entering into an arrangement but I am not sexually intimate with guys I'm not currently dating or in an arrangement in. Most of my pots forget the "trial period" topic after that conversation ;)
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I dont know about this trial period. sounds test driving-ish to me. Maybe you can found out how other SBs are ableb to with-hold the sex and still have their SDs gaga over them Anyway, good luck. At least he's attractive.
ReplyDeleteaah yes, the old 'trial period'.generally used by Sd's and Sbs to get something on the cheap. Sds to get free sex, and SBs to get free gifts. In both cases forgetting the meaning of the word 'mutual' in mutualy beneficial arrangements
ReplyDeleteYou all are so right... I know now, that this test-drive thing must not include sex in any way... We'll see though... I've been keeping in contact with him, but he still brings it up... I hate giving him all this time, attention, etc... and not getting what I want in return...
ReplyDeleteI have to say, that has to be one of the best SD stories I've ever heard. I haven't been in this game for longer than 6 months but I've never come across anyone who I had such a strong physical attraction to.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds perfect, but maybe too good to be true if you think you may end up feeling something for him. You have to remember that money is exchanging hands xxxxxxx
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Best of luck in your search
David