First Date Bliss

Okay... So, I went to see Mr Capoeira on Thursday evening...

   We met up at a cute little sushi place, in the city... Either I'd been talking to too many unattractive men, or he was just that handsome... But, Mr Capoeira was even better looking than his photos online... For a moment I just stared... He had long, twisted dread locs... He was tall, and his muscles could be seen under his coat... He had that little bit of bow-leggedness, that I love so much... Everything about him was sexy... From his Kango to his crip black top, to his fitted pants ((and what an ass he had)). I was so happy to have found a Pot that was this fine... I thought, "hey, this should make everything easier"...

    I'd never had sushi, and was reluctant to try anything... So, I drank... I'm not a big drinker, but I can hold liquor... I tried Sake... it wasn't my cup of tea, but he loved it... Mr Capoeira ate 6 plates of raw fish, and I had 2 glasses of wine, a martini, and a cosmo...

   The conversation was light, and airy... I don't know if it was because he was that funny, or that amazingly fine, but I had a grin on my lips the entire time... As he was placing some food in his mouth, for a moment, I caught my eyes following his chopstick, and caught a glimmer of something shiny in his mouth... When I asked what it was, he stuck his tongue out at me... Mr Capoeira had a two tongue rings in his mouth... I couldn't believe it... That struck up an entire different conversation... Turns out he also pierced his nipples and his penis... It took me by surprise... Here I am... 'Little miss conservative', sitting across from 'Mr Freak'... But it wasn't gross... It was so sexy... I was intrigued...

   After the sushi was long gone, and his drinks seemed to take hold, he loosened up... The physical attraction was there... the chemistry was... I kept wanting to kiss him... He asked me what I wanted, and then I had to focus... This is usually where I had the most problems... Expressing what it was I wanted from men... With a deep breath, I told him... I wanted an allowance for a set number of dates, etc... But he was so fine... I added, since I was so attracted to him, and since we got along so well, we could meet up more if time permitted...

   He didn't like the idea of an allowance right away... And insisted something that sounded like a trial period...  before considering an allowance... I was secretly upset... A trial period...??? Hmph... He told me what he expected... STD Testing, some sort of contraceptive ((any other man, and this would have been so gross))... He wanted lacy lingerie, and heels... And he told me how much he loved the way my hair fell on my shoulders...  ((that weave was a GOOD idea))... But if after said "evaluation" he decided not to agree to the arrangement, then what..??? I would have wasted time, shoes, money and energy on nothing...

   Still we talked about it... He talked a lot... It was good, though... I sat back and watched him tell me about himself without literally doing so... He was so easy to read... Mr Capoeira was cocky, and so sure about himself... He claimed he knew the woman's body in and out... He told me about his past arrangement... He had so many companies, my website, my hourly rate... blah blah blah... It was amusing...

   After dinner, he took me to Sephora... And let be walk up and down the aisles... He said his sister worked in make-up, and he had an appreciation of it all... It wasn't a giftcard, but I checked that late gift off of  my Christmas wish-list... Mr Capoeira bought me +$300 in makeup and fragrances... If this was what the trial period was going to consist of, then, I'd have no problem...

   Still, he was so sexy... His walk was slow, and deliberate... His back was hard under his trench... and his ass... ladies... I wanted him so badly...

   Afterwards, he offered to put me in a cab, but I didn't accept... I thanked him for everything with a nice, long hug... He was strong, and I could tell he didn't want me to leave... We parted ways, with that, and I took the train home...

   Once I exited the subway, I had a text waiting for me...

"Had a great time. You have the prettiest smile and the most gorgeous legs. Can't wait till tomorrow.
-A"

   I went to bed  really easy that night...

-CCSB

Jumping the Gun...

SO... I said I was going to get back into this strong... and it seems all of my work has been paying off... I was supposed to meet with Mr Capoeira two days ago, but had to cancel for a family death... I know that I messed up my chanced with Mr Big for cancelling, so I decided to try again... He hadn't hit me up since then... So, this evening, I just called him...

His voice was surprisingly sexy on the phone. He said the same about me... ((I swore he read my mind)) After small chit chat, I simply asked what he was doing tonight... He said he was free... So, I asked him out... Plain and simple... And to my surprise, he said "I'd like that..."

We have a date in a few hours at a sushi spot in Midtown... I'm excited, but not nervous... He seems really down to earth, and fun... Not to mention, he's kind of hot... ((I love a man with dreds))... Hopefully this works out...

Talk to you lovelies when I get home...

-CCSB

Diligent Little Elf...

I know it's the Holiday season, and I should be spending it with friends and family ((with I have done here and there)), but I have been working hard to reestablish myself with the Sugar world... I've reset many profiles on different sites, and spent hours upon hours emailing, messaging, and talking back and forth with numerous men...
This time, it seems different, though... I'm not as stressed or pressed to find a potential now... It's all coming back to me now, and being patient ((and perhaps taking that break)) is working for me...

I have a few potentials lined up...

    Mr Traveler: Older, white male... beady little eyes... lol... He claims to have traveled the world... Private jets, etc... He doesn't reside in NY... so that's good for me... We all know I can't stomach a man who isn't nice on the eyes for long... He'd like to set up something where we'd meet only when he's in town--up to twice a month... I proposed my allowance, but he prefers p4p... we'll see... Since it's the holiday seaosn, and he's with  his family... we cannot meet up until mid January... Hopefully this doesn't fall through by then... I'd hate to have given quality attention to a potential for nothing... He's already asked about the things Santa forgot to drop off from my Christmas list... I mentioned the Canon camera and the MAC/Sephora giftcards... Hopefully, he'll send me a lil sum sumn to hold me over between now and January...

    Mr Capoeira: A younger, quite handsome, able-bodied black man... Says he was a professional dancer, but now teaches Capoeira... Love that ladies... :)  He seems more reserved, so I haven't pushed things on him as I've done with other Pots... He does seem experienced with this sort of relationship though... He doesn't seem to be looking for much and even brought up the idea of an allowance before I said anything... I know to be wary though... I offered to meet with him today, actually, but due to a spur of the moment Vegas trip, he won't be available till this weekend... No biggies, I told him to hit me up when he's back in town...

I did go ahead and install my hair as I wanted... Super lush and super long... A very different look for me... I'm coming into the new year with a new attitude, and hopefully it'll work out for the better...

Happy Sugar Dancing...
-CCSB

Starting Again...

Firstly... Hello again you lovely ladies... A very Merry Every and Anything it is you choose to celebrate this Holiday Season... I pray you get everything you wish for... Good company, health, wealth, and sugar opportunities... There's something magical about this time of year... I'd like to sprinkle a little bit of sparkley dust to each one of you...

I've decided not to buy anyone Christmas gifts this year. I'm saving up for a car, and it's killing me... but I know it'll be so worth it... I'm even going to do my best to not buy myself things either... It will be ever so hard, though... However, I do know what it is that I want...

My Christmas Wish List:

1. A Car... duh... 

2. Hot Tools Professional Dryer

3. Canon EOS Rebel T3i 600 18.0 MP Camera.... (((please please please....)))

4. MAC and Sephora Giftcards (of course)

5. A new weave... I'd love to try something new with my hair for the new year... I'm thinking long... and full... Maybe 16"... ((I will be doing this soon))

6. A smoking hot New Year's kiss...

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A recurring theme I've been reading baout on many of your blogs is that of school... Oh man... was this semester a doozy for me... I took on 18 credits, two sports, 3 clubs to manage, two part-time jobs... the list doesn't end there... Needless to say, I didn't do as well academically... Nothing to stress over though... It's over and I can't change anything now... Next year... will be different though... I hope you all aced your finals and grin everyy time you see that juicy A+ on your transcript...

As for my sugar conquests... They were non-existent this whole semester... I basically took a break... Since beginning this journey, I have experienced many things... Met wonderful people, and learned more about myself... I didn't know what I was getting into, and still have questions along the way...
I so don't mean to make this sound like an application essay for a scholarship...

I'm basically trying to say that I'm back... Ready to give it my all this time... I'm going to try things I was afraid to before, and be more agressive... I read all the time that "newbies never last more than a couple of months"... I refuse to fall into that stigma... I've already renewed subscriptions, and reached out to old POTs... Let's see where the cards fall this time...

Side note...

I don't know how many of you women know what this is... But I've been on a hair journey for the past year... I've watched my hair grow longer than it has been my whole life... I decided to do a 4 month stretch, and just today took out my box braids... I am so happy... Can't wait to relax... ((I said it was a side note))

Can't wait to get back into the groove of things with you all...

-CCSB