Saturday night, I had a movie date night with my non-SB best friend... ((not that I have a SB-best friend)) I had no dates planned, and wanted to let it rest... Spending hours emailing potentials, and reading up on blogs is almost like being in school... Honestly... I'm trying to learn as much as possible, so I'm reading tons... Sometimes for hours at a time... Then trying to apply it to my situations...
But yes, I had a date night with my girl, and we headed off to the movies to see Crazy,Stupid,Love... First and lastly, Ryan Gosling is and has always been on my list of celebrity f***s... ((what, I have a sex drive, and he's up on my list...))
Anyway, I had a great time, and it was seriously a great way to let go of the SB double life for a few hours... That night, I even met a guy in the cab ride home, and scored his number... He is super cute, and has a mean body... A little older, but since I've been chatting it up with these near ancient POTs, it was no biggie... He also get's my witty, dry sense of humor, and has a great smile... It was nice, talking to a normal guy, and just thinking "Oh, he's cute..." and not "I wonder if he'll give me an allowance"...
***Back to the Confections...
I've decided to let go the two POTs I went out with last week... Both, Mr SJP and Mr Boondocks... Neither of them could live up to the name Sugar Daddy for different reasons... As I read, understand, and experience more about this world, I am building more of a confidence about myself--what I want, what I expect, and what I will not tolerate... Mr SJP was let go because he didn't have simple manners... Not only did he disrespect me by feeling me up, but he was rude, and was simply looking for sex... CUT!!! Mr Boondocks didn't know what he wanted. He had a scheduled tennis date last night, but he didn't come through. I wasn't even surprised, actually... I was just upset, because I could have gone out with another POT... CUT!!!
New Potentials...
So, I have a few... they all seem promising, but we all know how hard it is to find a real SD that's also a gentleman and looking for a discreet relationship...
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| Mr Aussie |
Thus, meet Mr Aussie...
Met him on a site, about two weeks ago, and we hit it off great right away... Pretty young, and from ((you guess it)) Australia... With him, there was great chemistry over the conversations, and we even discussed our wants out of the relationship... He's not in my location, and only hits up New York for about a week at a time for work... He's offering a great amount for my company most of the days of the week to dinners, drinks, shopping, etc... We're supposed to meet up sometime next week, when he's in town... And I'm super excited... He's not so bad on the eyes, and the age difference is not so bad... only 15 years...
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| Mr Architect |
Mr Architect... is a little older, only 39, and is in my city... We've actually been playing tag through emails for a bit, and he's been persistent in meeting me, but I haven't been free to meet him because of other dates and such... He invited me to an upscale rooftop lounge/bar on Saturday, but I declined because I was nervous about heading out there... He didn't know the real reason, and simply agreed to something later on in the week... He's actually very handsome, and the conversations are easy going, and to the point. We haven't talked about a set arrangement yet, but he says he's open to the idea of an allowance... He'd like to meet first... No problem at all...
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| Mr Fix-It |
Mr Fix-It has been my favorite of the three so far... He's older, 49, and a plumber... So far, he's been the most honest, and upfront about everything... He seems like an easy going and fun guy to be around... Not to mention one of his kids lives literally 1 block away from my home... ((ugh!!!)). He's not married, but pays child support to two different women... Despite this, he still is looking for a NSA, but exclusive SB/SD relationship... We talked for hours last night...
*I feel as though, as a SB, it's my job to make my SD or POTs see me as a person to go to to help them feel better... If that means talking to him about his problems, then so be it... By the passing of an hour, he'd told me about all of his life dramas over the last 3 years...But I could tell he felt better afterwards...
We have a date coming this Friday night at Dave and Busters... It should be fun, and not stressful... I can let my hair down, and loosen up a bit, while still feeling him out... Mr Fix-It has no problem with an allowance or shopping trips, etc... His only request was that "I make a list of the things I want from the mall because he hates shopping for more than two hours"...with that I can oblige...
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Along with a schedule filled with dates with POTs, I also have a few non SD dates this week. I don't know why, but being a part-time SB has tapped into a confidence I left deep somewhere... and I'm loving it...
***I have a date on Thursday with another non SD guy... He's a marine, and my gosh... His body flexes on its own... It's beautiful... I can so see that happening (( :) ))... We have a dinner date for then, and I can't wait to casually touch his arm to feel it...
***Saturday night, I have a date with the guy I met in the cab ride after the movies... He's by far, the one I'm most excited to see, and I hope we hit it off better than we already do... Not to mention, he doesn't live far from me, so I won't have to take a bus, train, boat, and plane to get to him... ((a girl like me does not have a car))
I'm going to do my best, though, not to mix business with pleasure... These non SD guys will have to come second to my SDs as they won't be able to support me how I'm currently looking to be supported... I know some SBs have boyfriends on the side, but that only smells like disaster after a while, to me...
I know that was super long, but I wanted to post the movie info on Saturday when I got home, but I fell asleep on my laptop ((lol)), and I've been too busy to sit around and get to it...
A quick super thanks to the other SBs who don't mind sharing tips and help... I so think it's amazing of you to help me out with answering questions... It feels great to be able to talk to other women about this, and not feel the judgement at all... I love our little community...
**bisous**
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I'm so glad your self confidence is building love! You are a sexy SB and should never sell yourself short. I hope with time youo get a better understanding of what you want and find and awesome sugar daddy to spoil you to no end. I like the new pots (and the cute pictures you picked!). Fingers crossed love, I hope one of them is the right SD :)
ReplyDeleteI loved how you listened to him. Since I am a non-sex Sugar Baby listening is what I do. Some men are trapped in careers they hate for money's sake. It is a relief for a Sugar Baby like you to hear their real dreams.
ReplyDeleteThank you, ladies... Everyday, I'm learning so much, and it makes me more confident and eager to apply the advice given to my everyday experiences... I love being a Sugar Baby, and if I have to talk to my SD about his day--all day... I will... He's supporting me for my quality time... It's a mutual beneficial relationship...
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